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Unannounced Hiatus policy. Sorry and here's why. Dear Friends, From time to time I've found it necessary to take breaks from this site. The reasons for it vary but the all have to do with keeping things good and actually going forward in the right away. Two weeks seems like a long time but it's not really all that long and, as always, it's so good to be back. I missed everyone, but I have to do it this way. We are doing wonderful things here. It's been a very interesting year for me so far thanks in no small part to the great people here. So, there will be unannounced hiatus… अधिक पढ़ें

Preface: The term “slave” as used in this text is to be understood in the unique context of consensual, adult BDSM relationships and not too be confused with actual slavery as is disgracefully far to widely present in our modern world and which this writer staunchly opposes. Call Me Anthony Some thoughts on on-line BDSM protocols and related So, picture it this way. You're in some place at 2:30 in the morning and people are doing S&M things with each other. Someone's being “spanked” there, another person is having having a Wand used on him over there, at yet another s… अधिक पढ़ें

Please see the main Party Blog, here: Party Central: SassyBri and Leaflee's Ultimate Summer Party http://hi.xhamstervideo.net/user/SassyBri/posts/288567.html Music for working artists, models, admirers Took the family to the art show to get them ready for the party. Party Music (The blog version) Setting up music for "the crew" (roots rock, standard stuff.) Rolling Stones Start Me Up 3:28 https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Zzl… अधिक पढ़ें

Previous blog of similar title deleted. 500 Days and counting... Feels like much less and I hope it keeps going and who knows where the yellow brink road goes. it feels good, heat conducting in a nice social space without pressure,expectations or the need to go beyond anything or get to any place. We're here, We enjoy each other's company -- more or less -- and I like it as it is. Comfortable and sexy. Not competitive -- the idiot men get rejected, the good ones seem to let each other alone, the girls and wom… अधिक पढ़ें

This is a bit of a ramble covering some important subjects. I'll probably cut it down and shuffle things around a bit but that's too much work for now so I'm posting as is. verbose, redundant as it is the intention is sincere. and imperfection is one of the themes, here any The “Fake” Profile Cybersexuality---Some thoughts on Identity Issues---My Experiences---Sexual Integrity--- Transparency---My Limits---Gender Transitioning---Making Things Better for the Women of Xhamster One of the issues we all gr… अधिक पढ़ें

Favorite Uploaders: Here are some of my most favorite, hot, tongue-hanging-out-of-the-mouth panting profiles. If you visit from here, please thank the uploaders and be nice. Thanks. The Finest in Lesbian Erotica Since first seeing print ads in the Sunday New York Times' Fashion Supplement I've loved lesbian erotica and porn. Ruby Fruit Jungle is still one of the hottest books. Anyway, XHamster has some of the very best G-G porn I've found anywhere on the net. The following Profiles carry my highest recommendation for the best "G-G" videos to be found… अधिक पढ़ें

A friend was asking me, "so, where did it all start?" As an adult, it was porn -- written and photographic -- that first thrilled me about SM (broadly). But, as soon as I began to think about things more clearly, I found may way back to those earliest memories. Now I just call it "ECM play." Anyway, there's naturally a lot more to that than these few stills yet this cartoon... She was my first girlfriend before I even understood what that meant. Sexy, huh? For me, yes. She's self-confident, she's brave, she's not shy, willing to walk alone in the deep forest. I just liked her. Maybe it's… अधिक पढ़ें

(Moved from profile to here) ------------------------------------------------------------------------- "Mmmmmmm, yes" For all the smart, sexy, creative women and girls of XHamster. I love your sexy videos, galleries and blogs. You make me so horny and feel sooooooooooooooo good. I adore you all for being here. Kate Bush, The Sensual World http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=M6lnyDp-joE ======================================================================== For all here who have chatted, shared links,… अधिक पढ़ें

In recognition of the Good Men of Xhamster: You know, there are just a lot of really good men here. I see your comments, your profiles, blogs and so many of you do such a great work with it all in many different ways. We've all seen the horrible, gross and disgusting things other "men" (using that word loosely) post. While I can't blame them in a way, for I do think the site tends to drive a lot of men a little nuts, there's just no excuse for it. You good guys know that too and I'm sure feel the same way. Sadly, I think we'll never be able to change the worst of it,… अधिक पढ़ें

The Liesbian Bisexual Double-Standard (First draft) One of the things that's bothered me from time to time me about the heterosexual SM world and the wider sexual world generally, is what I'll term as the "Lesbian Bisexual Double-Standard." On every BDSMers check-list (see my blog on this if unfamiliar with this useful tool) there's an item typically entitled "f-o-r-c-e-d" (Xh doesn't like the "f" word) homosexuality," and for gays, "forced heterosexuality." It can be termed in different ways but the basic notion is that a partner is challenged, compelled (Xh doesn't l… अधिक पढ़ें

(working draft, graphics to be added) Generally speaking, I think people can be divided into two categories: Dry People and Juicy People. About 99.99 per cent of us on XH are, more or less, Juicy types. Dry people have perfunctory sex and rarely masturbate. They are inhibited and confused about sex. They are often discriminatory against homosexuals, transgendered persons and any others who are erotically different in some ways. Dry people are often "professed, openly heterosexual" even while sometimes being deeply in denial about their actual sexual preferences. This is the man who… अधिक पढ़ें

There are no wrong answers. There are so many version of "the list" but the one mentioned below is one of the better ones. If you complete this honestly with any appropriate annotations or addtions, I suggest you either 1) memorize and burn it, 2) keep it as safe and secure as any of your most valuable, private and confidential documents (but in a completely separate place from those and unsigned!). Some take a more public stance with sharing their list. Th… अधिक पढ़ें

In Praise of all things Japanese Image found here: http://hi.xhamstervideo.net/user/egines (Image comment: This was an image I found on Xham and wanted to use only images found on xHam in this blog space.) If you're reading this you've found my profile and noticed my love of Japanese Adult Video. I'll do a brief blog about what I find positive in JAV in a later entry. However, my point here: there's more to my affection for All Things Japanese than some pornographic films. I'd hate for any country to be judged or fetis… अधिक पढ़ें

The Bewilderment of xHamster Males* Part I He's here, he's horny, he has a cock and, of course, he's thinking with the little head (again). He is rather bewildered by the site. Now, if he sticks to the "Just Porn" aspect of it, he'll be fine forever. He'll find an endless supply of great porn in virtually every category an average person might seek, and likely find things he never knew existed. But, if and when he puts his toe into the "social" side of things, he often seems totally lost and this is where he starts knocking down telephone polls. In trying to overcome… अधिक पढ़ें

Some useful and fun-to-read articles and a very good video about ass loving. If you have any good suggestions, please leave a comment. Strap-on Instructions -- good instructional video. Watch, learn, then forget and do. :-) The intro to this is useful but it then goes into a porno clip with some novice ass play and a few questionable moments. A Beginners Guide to Awesome Anal Sex http://www.blogh… अधिक पढ़ें